Are You Believing Lies About Love?

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The meaning of love is one of the most philosophized questions in life.

With a society that defines love as personal desire, lust, and irrational feelings, it only fosters pain and heartache to an already self-absorbed and broken society.

But the Bible tells us that God is love (1 John 4:8). Knowing this, we can discern all the lies about love and replace them with truths.

Love is not romance.
Love is not a feeling.
Love is not attraction.
Love doesn’t have preferences.
It is not reserved for our family or people that we like.
Love is for everyone, even our worst of enemies.
Love can be hard. It doesn’t always feel pleasant.
Love is not deserved and can never be earned.
Love cannot lie. It speaks in actions yet has no agenda.
Love is fully grace and fully truth.
It is the epitome of pure.
It cannot be tainted.
Love is incorruptible.
Love is the Spirit of God.

It’s not important to be in love, but to have Love in you.


Have you ever wondered why the heart represents love? Because it’s what keeps you alive, what keeps you going. Your highest desire. Let God be your highest desire, not yourself or anything else. Only He can fill the void and give true satisfaction.

Step outside of your selfish borders of love, invite Love into you, and watch your life transform.

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-8

What has God been laying on your heart about His love lately? Comment below.

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“Do You Want to See That He is Risen?”

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Three years ago, I had a dream that really helped boost my faith.

I dreamt I was in a house with a long, dim hall full of doors. A man (or an angel – not sure) said to me, “Do you want to see that He is risen?”

Fighting against the urge to let fear stop me, I quickly agreed and walked with him down the hallway. We approached the third door on the left and arrived at the most hideous door you can imagine.

The door looked like something you’d see from a graveyard scene in a horror movie. It was covered in dirt and roots and looked as if it had been rotting for thousands of years. Fear radiated from it. Behind that door was my doom.

It was terrifying, but I tried to ignore the fear because I knew that if Jesus truly rose from the dead then I shouldn’t fear.

The door opened.

As soon as it opened, everything the door made me feel – intense fear, evil, dread, hopelessness, and death – instantly vanished as a peaceful, empty tomb was revealed. The atmosphere shone with a ray of sunshine from a window, revealing the empty burial cloth and bed.

The tranquility and peace were so immense and pure, that it filled me up with power as if it was the Spirit of God Himself. I knew evil, death or the grave had absolutely no more power.

I began running down the hall to proclaim to the world with sheer joy, “He’s alive! He’s alive!” as if for the first time I truly understood what that meant.

After this dream, I better understood the deep emotions that surrounded Jesus’ death and resurrection – especially that of Mary Magdalene who was the first to hear this good news.

Imagine the anguish and despair she felt. Up in the quiet hours of the early morning – deprived of sleep from crying the entire weekend – to prepare spices to place in the tomb of the Hope that was snatched away from her by an unforeseen murder.

The sting of hopelessness would be final as she would go visit His disfigured body in that cold tomb, sealing the gloom she felt. Evil had won once again. Death had won once again. Her people would never inherit their promise. They would never be free.

But upon approaching the gloomy graveyard, something even stranger happened. The morbid sight she expected to find was not there. She found that Jesus’ grave had been robbed. Little did she know that it was Jesus Himself who robbed it.

“Woman, why are you weeping? Who are you seeking?” Jesus asked her.

Can you hear Jesus asking you the same thing?

“Why are you crying? Who are you looking for?” he asks, genuinely confused because He’s standing right in front of you.

Look through the fog of your negative emotions and expectations, and recognize the face of Jesus Christ, who is risen from the dead with ALL power in His possession.

The powers of evil have had their rights revoked.

Sin has no more power. Death has no more power.

You have inherited your promise.

You are free.


Have you ever found yourself looking past Jesus? How did He show up? Comment below.

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When You Don’t Feel God’s Presence

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Until recently, I use to equate feeling the presence of the Holy Spirit with the feeling of being enveloped in extreme love and peace – which actually is the Spirit of power, love and a sound mind that 2 Timothy 1:7 speaks of – but God taught me that those are only a few fruits, evidence, of His presence.

I learned that if we are to be aware of the Holy Spirit’s continual presence, we must be aware of all of His attributes.

Galatians 5:22 tells us the evidence of God’s Spirit includes:

  • Love
  • Joy
  • Peace
  • Patience
  • Kindness
  • Goodness
  • Faithfulness
  • Gentleness
  • Self-control

Other parts of the Bible tell us more on who the Holy Spirit is. He is:

A few years ago when I was discouraged and wanting to feel His presence, I heard Him say to me, “The truth is my presence, and my presence is the truth.” And today I’m still learning the depth to those words.

God is the Spirit of Truth – the Living Word. In the midst of every trial and temptation, His presence is that voice of Truth and Wisdom, telling you the righteous route to take. He’s the Power, reminding you of your strength and authority in Him. In the face of grief and adversity, He’s the small voice counseling you and telling you it’s going to be okay. He’s the Patience and Gentleness telling you to handle that rude person in a different manner than your flesh wishes to.

He’s the Spirit of Glory, whose beauty we see all around us in nature. The Spirit of Life, in whom “we live and move and have our being” – the One who’s presence we can never escape (Acts 17:28).

God may not always choose to manifest Himself through overwhelming feelings of love and peace, or by speaking to you. Sometimes He wishes to impress on your heart. After all, that’s what He’s always been after.

So as children of God, let’s look to the Holy Spirit and His continual presence by remembering who He is and what He does. Then may we better understand His omnipotent presence.

Have you ever felt that God wasn’t as near as He used to be? How did God reveal to you that He was still there? Comment below.

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What Can Your Bad Dreams Teach You?

jeremy-thomas-63102You know the kind of dreams you have where you can’t run? Where your teeth fall out? Or where the ground suddenly becomes unstable?

I recently had a dream where I was walking around a lake and the ground started shifting and turning sideways. I had to try and hold on and climb up it without falling off. It was chaotic, scary and impossible. It seems that’s how existence would be if the universe was all directed by random chance.

Imagine gravity being randomized or the earth drastically changing and morphing every other second. But they are not. There are physical laws set in place, which point to God’s perfect control. And I am very glad there are.

Aren’t you glad you wake up every day and look like the same person? And that your teeth don’t suddenly fall out? Or that the earth doesn’t flip on you as your walking down the street?

Since there are definite physical laws and promises in this life, then we can be certain that the other laws and promises that God has also given us are definite as well. We are given these promises and expectations through the Word of God, the Bible.

So as Christians, why do we fear? Why do we let our minds go crazy and worry like we don’t know what our future holds? Like the sky is going to turn upside down from the weight of our problems?

Wake up! It’s just a bad dream.

The Bible says, “Surely Your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever” (Psalms 23:6). So stop fearing and believe His promises! Like physical laws, they are unbreakable.

Fear not, for I am with you; Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and I will help you; I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.” Isaiah 41:10

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5 More Things My Cat Taught Me About God

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I’m always so amazed at how much God can teach us through the most ordinary things in our lives. For me lately, it’s been my cat, Boots.

Here are 5 more things my cat taught me about God:
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Our hearts melt at our pet’s sad eyes when we leave home in the morning. There’s a whole other melting when we return and they happily greet us at the door. These are the most precious moments to us, because it displays how they willfully love us – without us having to bribe them or pull them out of their hiding spot.

Pets may not always listen and do what we want them to. But if we commanded 100 percent of their actions, they wouldn’t be our loving pets – they’d be smartphones. And we don’t love our smartphones. Because they are just material items that can’t love us back. In the same way, God gave us free will because he didn’t want robots. He didn’t want to force people to love or obey Him. He wanted it to be a choice so it would be true love and not force.

“God did this so that they would seek him and perhaps reach out for him and find him, though he is not far from any one of us.” Acts 17:27

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Cats can have the biggest mood swings. One second they’re purring on your lap and the next they’re biting your arm because you pet them wrong. But that’s just how cats are. They have their likes and dislikes, but they don’t essentially change. They don’t go through long periods in life where they forget about you or decide they don’t love you anymore. Our pets stay the same. And so does God.

What you experienced with Him yesterday or several years ago, you can experience today. He is still the same. Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever” (Hebrews 13:8). Knowing that we humans are the ones that change, we can examine ourselves if we feel a negative difference in our relationship with God.

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My heart was broken the times my cat Boots was in physical pain or when he was depressed after he was separated from his sister. We may feel silly or dramatic for feeling this way and think it is something that God wouldn’t care about.

But, again, we are in His image and He has the same emotions. God loves animals more than you or I or anyone at PETA ever could. He created animals. If we feel horrible when bad things happen to them, then imagine how much more it hurts Him.

“The creation looks forward to the day when it will join God’s children in glorious freedom from death and decay … And we believers also groan … for we long for our bodies to be released from sin and suffering. We, too, wait with eager hope for the day when God will give us our full rights as his adopted children, including the new bodies he has promised us.” (Romans 8:21, 23 New Living Translation)

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Once, Boots snuck outside and was lost for three days. He thought he was having the time of his life chasing lizards and girl cats around the neighborhood. He didn’t know his life was in danger and that he could die from lack of water, a larger animal, or get ran over by a car. He could have come back home anytime or came to my voice when I went calling him.

Though I knew he didn’t really want to, I still searched for him intensely because I didn’t want him to be harmed. Because I love him and didn’t want to be separated from him forever. When I finally found him and he saw me, he wouldn’t stop yelping in joy. In the same way, God seeks us even when we don’t know we’re lost.

“For the Son of Man has come to seek and to save that which was lost.” Luke 19:10

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Sometimes Boots meows and follows me around begging for my attention or a treat and I love every minute of it. Because cats usually have such an independent, do-things-on-my-own attitude, I enjoy the times he willfully comes to me and needs me.

I think humans are the same way – so independent, trying to take everything on ourselves. But when we look to God for help and He has our full attention, He is delighted by our gesture and blesses us.

“If humans, being sinful, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give good gifts to those who ask him?” Matthew 7:11

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Though God searches for us intensely, He will never force Himself in our lives. He gave us free will so that we could choose to know and love Him.

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5 Things My Cat Taught Me About God

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God said, “Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness, so that they may be masters over all the wild animals and creatures upon the earth.” Genesis 1:26

We are made in God’s image.

But we tend to forget that means we have a lot of the same emotions and characteristics that He does. Just as God is Master over us, we are masters to our pets. And if we have such strong emotions and love for our pets, then we can be sure that they’re just a small shadow of the infinitely greater love that God has for us.

Here are 5 things my cat taught me about God:

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When I look at my cat Boots, I am amazed when I consider the creator of such a beautiful, wonderfully-made creature! Boots has beautiful, bright green eyes that are full of life, a graceful stride, and soft, perfectly-patterned fur made especially for petting sessions. But above all, God’s greatest work of art is each and every one of us, created uniquely in His image.

“For we are God’s masterpiece, created in the Messiah Jesus to perform good actions that God prepared long ago to be our way of life” (Ephesians 2:10, ISV).

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I love my cat Boots and I’m not even one of the true crazy cat people – just moderately crazy. I have several nicknames for him (including Booty), and I treasure all of his little quirks. To me, he’s just the smartest, cutest thing in the world. I’ve never gotten tired of his adorableness.

Do you think God, the One who knows everything about you, feels anything less? No, infinitely greater! God loves you more deeply than you could imagine (Ephesians 3:18-19). He even gave us cute little animals to make our hearts melt.

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I talk about my cat – probably too much at times – and I enjoy hanging with him. I even have a photo of Boots as the background on my phone. I love my cat. He is not just mine, but I totally own that fact and brag that he is mine. God does the same with us!

“God is for you. Had he a calendar, your birthday would be circled. If he drove a car, your name would be on his bumper. If there’s a tree in heaven, he’s carved your name in the bark. We know he has a tattoo, and we know what it says. ‘I have written your name on my hand,’ he declares.” – Max Lucado

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Many people like cats because they are funny creatures. Sometimes Boots leaves his tongue out after he meows and it’s hilarious. Just recently, when he noticed The Aristocats playing on TV, his eyes got huge and were glued to it for 20 minutes. God loves to see us laugh. The Bible tells of His sense of humor and speaks of God laughing. And if we laugh, then we know God laughs even greater!

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My cat is very mischievous. He loves to play, fetch, and explore new things (like grocery bags). Every morning when I get dressed, Boots jumps on the overhead rack in my closet. He walks back and forth all over my folded clothes, sometimes knocking some down. But I don’t get mad or yell, because he’s adorable and I love him.

Now I’m not saying that God likes when we do bad stuff or that He won’t correct us or let us experience consequences – because He will. But I am saying that if I’m patient with my cat because I love him, then God is unimaginably patient with you. When certain things feel unforgivable and too big of a mess to clean up, God reminds you that He’s big enough to easily fold things back up – and that He still adores you.

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“But you, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love and faithfulness.” Psalms 86:15

If you feel like you’ve been needing forgiveness, love, or have been wanting to know God more intimately, just ask Him! He’s sure to answer you.

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4 Reasons We Need to Embrace Our Brokenness

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Do you get discouraged when you mess up? Do you beat yourself up and even feel like giving up sometimes?

I recently went through a period where I was struggling with feelings of anxiety and guilt about my Christian performance. Then God showed me that I was looking at myself and my flaws in the wrong way.

Here are 4 reasons why we actually need to embrace our brokenness.

1. Jesus doesn’t want “good” people. 

Jesus said, “I have not come for the righteous, but for sinners,” and also said that none of us are naturally good or righteous (Mark 2:17, 10:18). Jesus rebuked the Pharisees – the religious leaders of his day – for being hypocrites that saw themselves as sinless kings, while they viewed everyone else as sinful, worthless peasants. They rejected Christ’s gifts and miracles because they felt they didn’t need them – but it was the outcasts and the needy who were humble and willing to receive His grace. Jesus even said:

I tell you that the kingdom of God will be taken away from you [the pharisees] and given to a people who will produce its fruit. Whoever will fall on this stone [Christ] will be broken: but whoever this stone falls on, it will grind him to powder.” Matthew 21:43-44

2. Our weakness is a requirement to truly receive His working power.

We will always be flawed as human beings – but it’s when we begin to think we can handle things on our own that we start to fail. We begin to lose our peace, lose direction and feel like we need to work for salvation. When we start to feel this way, it’s a sign that we may be striving by our own power and not resting in His power and promises.

Jesus said, My yoke is easy and my burden is light. If life has felt hard and heavy lately, then you are most likely trying to carry the load by yourself. Allow Him to carry it for you!

“Are you so foolish? After starting your Christian lives in the Spirit, why are you now trying to become perfect by your own human effort? Have you experienced so much for nothing? Surely it was not in vain, was it? Does God give you his Spirit and work miracles among you because you do actions of the law? Of course not! It is because through faith you believe the message you heard about Christ.” Galatians 3:3-5

3. It helps us to remain humble.

Imagine what we’d act like if we instantly became flawless, perfect humans once we received Christ. We’d quickly turn our attention from God and begin exalting ourselves and giving ourselves credit for our good qualities.

It’s actually a very familiar scenario – when Lucifer fell from heaven, when mankind fell, and the reason people do evil in the world everyday. Pride. We need to remember our flaws so we don’t begin to judge others – becoming like the hypocritical Pharisees. We need to remember that without Him and without the Holy Spirit guiding us, we are still the same exact broken person that we were before. Paul even used his problems as a humble reminder:

“But I refrain, so that no one can give me credit for something beyond what they see or hear from me, especially because of the extraordinary revelations I have received. Therefore, so that I would not be given credit, a thorn in the flesh was given to me, a messenger of Satan to torment me so I would not get more credit than I deserve.” 2 Corinthians 12:6-7

4. It reminds us why we need a Savior.

Embracing our brokenness doesn’t mean accepting defeat or embracing bad habits. It’s about remembering what God has done and is doing for us daily, and knowing that without our daily walk with Him, we’d quickly return to being slaves to sin.

We’re reminded of why we needed a savior in the first place and that it’s Jesus’ power and our dependence on Him that keeps us free and redeems us – not our own humanly efforts. Paul continues to explain:

But Jesus said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is perfected in weakness.’ Therefore, I will most gladly boast all the more about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may reside in me. Therefore I am well content with weaknesses, with insults, with distresses, with persecutions, with difficulties, for Christ’s sake; for when I am weak, then I am strong.” 2 Corinthians 12:9-10